"You Can Take Charge Of Your Life"

Last night i was going through verses of "Bhagwad Gita",and suddenly i became philosophical.I slept early but my mind was refusing to take rest and was thinking continuously of something which i decided to post on my blog....

Whenever things do not happen according to the way we wanted,there is a temptation to name it as a destiny. We can always hear people saying - I am not destined to this, may be i am not so lucky to get this etc.But this is the way how we deal with failure, we are consoling ourselves. Whatever situation we are living in,to be human means that we can mould the situation in our own ways. Human beings are the one who can mould the every situation they are living in, but this is not happening today. Most people in the world are moulded by the situation around them. That is simply because they exist in the reaction to the situation they are placed in. They end up with questions only "why i was placed in this situation" ?

Everything that we know as "ourselves" is the accumulation. Body is accumulation of food. What we call "our mind" is an accumulation of impressions that we have gathered through five senses.....

What we accumulate can be ours it will never become we. What is "we" is yet to come into our experience, it is an unconscious state. we are not even 100% conscious of what we have accumulated. We are trying to live our life through what we have gathered, not through who we are.
Remember,
"All of us have the same inner capabilities, unfortunately never explored, never accessed"
(Ideas in last paragraph were from "The Times Of India" )